My husband became angry to the point that he could insult me by word, which was so poisonous for our relationship. This is the most critical factor that determines the outcome of the quarrel. Once you give up and let your emotions out, the results may be much worse. Every time I used rude words in response, he got even more furious and uncontrolled.
Psychology experts claim that you should talk in a calm, quiet manner. The opponent will have to calm down too, at least in order to hear what you say. On the contrary, he started to criticize, mock at me and use rude words even more often. He liked to try my nerves and see how much I could stand. You can ignore the insults of some unimportant people like a rude assistant at the shop Ecosphere - Electrux - Other Things a waiter, but when it comes to your close people, and husband in particular, tolerance is something you should strongly avoid.
While humor is viewed as one of the best and Sad Hill (Acapella) - Kheops* Feat. IAM & 3°Œil* - Sad Hill / Scrute Le Terrain powerful ways to respond, I found it extremely difficult to use humor when my husband insulted me.
The feeling of resentment was so strong that I just wanted to cry with rage. Can you imagine how it feels to make a pleasant face and start joking instead? However, this Superstar - Madonna - MDNA exactly what you should Mellow Reflector - Dont talk to me.
The main thing about humor is that it undermines the power of rude words and relieves tension. Try to make a mockery by exaggerating the insult or adding something. Apart from ungrounded rude words, insult also implies criticism and sound judgment.
You know, I started to be a more organized as for my household chores. I chose the moment when he was in a good mood and asked him to have a talk with me. To be more precise, I asked him to keep silent and not to interrupt.
I told him everything I felt. I described my feelings and emotions and it seemed to work! He realized that words can hurt more that physical violence. When you decide to talk to the person who insults you, try to be as polite as possible. I know how hard it is, but try to be cool-headed and realistic. In most cases verbal abuse is more painful than physical one.
Insults hit your sore point, ruin your dignity and self-esteem and diminish your importance as a person. While physical violence leaves scars on your body, an insult leaves scars on your soul. It always works and gives desirable results. When I saw that he Mellow Reflector - Dont talk to me getting angry and started insulting me, I just left him alone under any pretext. Say with a serious face that you have an appointment and leave him alone.
Say that you need to help your children with homework, work in the garden or think up anything that enables you to leave the room. Be sure your partner would be rather disappointed and puzzled. Someone would say that quarrels and insults are an integral part of any relationship and they cannot lead Mellow Reflector - Dont talk to me any consequences.
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